Ikolishi lingase lizizwe lingenamingcele kulabo abanenhlanhla yokuhamba, ngokunikezwa okungenamkhawulo kwabantu abasha, imibono emisha, okuhlangenwe nakho okuyingqayizivele, namathuba amasha. Le ngcebo ingase ibangele abafundi ukuba bakhohlwe iqiniso elibuhlungu: ikolishi alihlali unomphela.
Abantu abaningi abaphothule ekolishi, sebechithe imali eningi neminyaka emine, uma ingengaphezu kwalokho, yokuphila kwabo esikoleni, bayazisola ngokungafezi okuthile phakathi neminyaka yabo yasekolishi. Nazi izinto eziyisishiyagalolunye okufanele wonke umfundi azenze ngaphambi kokuphuma enyuvesi unomphela ukugwema iminjunju yekusasa.
1. Thumela Ama-imeyili Abandayo
Cabangela othile ongathanda ukuhlangana naye: umfundi ongumfundi wasenyuvesi odumile, umbhali umsebenzi wakhe ube nomthelela ekuboneni kwakho izinto, noma oyingqalabutho embonini oyithandayo. Bese, thola ikheli labo le-imeyili bese uqala ukuxhumana nabo.
Kodwa, ukuthumela ama-imeyili abandayo kungase kungajabulisi, kungakhululeki, futhi kube umsebenzi wokwenqaba kubantu abaningi.
Nokho, ngenxa yokuthi usengumfundi, kufanele ubheke ukubhukha kwakho futhi uqhubeke ukwenze noma yikanjani. Thatha ithuba lokuthi wonke umuntu ufuna ukusiza izingane zasekolishi.
Nokho, ungayingcwabi le nzuzo ekujuleni kwe-imeyili yakho. Kufanele uqale i-imeyili yakho ebandayo ngokuthi “Sawubona, ngaziwa njengo-___, futhi ngingumfundi wasenyuvesi e-___.” Futhi, uma unokuxhumana okwengeziwe nomuntu ngamunye, bazise ngokushesha.
2. Yiba Nobusuku Bonke
Cishe ufanekisa esinye sezimo ezimbili:
- Uhlezi kukhompuyutha yakho, utadishela amafayineli akho uma umemeza ngaphakathi, “Ubuthongo obababuthakathaka!”
- Uzikhiphile nabangani bakho abahamba phambili, nixoxa, niyadansa, futhi nizifingqa ubusuku bonke.
Noma ngabe yisiphi isimo osithandayo (isixwayiso: esokuqala singase singagwemeki; ngakho-ke, izinsiza zokubhala ezifana umbhali wami wephepha ingakusiza ukuthi ugweme ukuthunyelwa sekwephuzile kwezabelo). Kwenze umgomo ukudonsa ubusuku bonke okungenani kanye phakathi nomsebenzi wakho wezemfundo. Lokhu kuzokhulula okunye ukucindezeleka kwakho.
Kusukela kuhwalala kuze kuphume ilanga, bheka esibhakabhakeni. Yenza izikhathi nabangane bakho ezizohlala impilo yonke. Ungase ukhathele ngosuku olulandelayo, kodwa ngeke uzisole. Kodwa ungakwenzi umkhuba ukungalali ubusuku bonke.
3. Funda Ikhono Eliyigugu
Noma ngabe umsebenzi wakho wokuqala ufana ncamashi nomsebenzi wakho omkhulu, indawo yokusebenza ngokungangabazeki izoncika kwezinye izici zakho. Yiya ezifundweni ukuze ufunde futhi ujabule, kodwa qiniseka ukuthi ubhalisa ezifundweni ezizokusiza ukwazi ikhono.
Ikhono lokwakha nokwethula uhlelo lwebhizinisi oluthembekile kuzithameli, isibonelo, linikeza amakhono angokoqobo ekubhekaneni nezimo ezinzima, ukuqhamuka nezixazululo ezintsha, ukubeka phambili ikhasimende, ukuxhumana, ukuncenga, nokudala imbuyiselo ekutshalweni kwezimali. Lokhu kufanele ukwenze esikoleni ngoba awazi ukuthi uzowadinga nini lawa makhono asebenzayo.
4. Zimisele ku-Adventure
Ngokuvamile ayikho into efana nekhefu lasentwasahlobo noma lasehlobo ngemva kokuphothula ekolishi. Iholide lasebusika nalo lithatha izinsuku ezimbalwa ubude. Yize ungalulekwa ngokuthola umsebenzi noma i-internship ngesikhathi usesikoleni, kufanele futhi uzinike isikhathi sokuya ku-adventure.
Thatha uhambo lomgwaqo nabangane bakho noma uchithe isemester ufunda phesheya. Yenza isikhathi kulo nyaka sokuthatha uhambo. Awufanele nje kuphela izinsuku ezimbalwa zokuziphumuza, kodwa ungase ufunde okuthile okusha ngawe.
5. Zuza Ulwazi Lomsebenzi
Esinye sezikhathi ezamukeleka kakhulu zokuthola isipiliyoni somsebenzi kungesikhathi sasenyuvesi. Yisikhathi lapho ungashintsha khona imisebenzi ngaphandle kokubonakala ungathembekile noma ungenangqondo. KULUNGILE ukuba ne-internship ehlukile njalo ehlobo. Kwamukelekile futhi ukuba nomsebenzi unyaka nonyaka wesikole, uma kungewona wonke amasemester.
Ukuba nomsebenzi omusha njalo ezinyangeni eziyisithupha kuwukubukeka kabi uma uphothula ekolishi. Ukuzama imisebenzi ehlukahlukene kuyindlela engcono kakhulu yokuthola ukuthi yini ofuna ukuyenza ngemuva kwekolishi. Futhi yisikhathi esihle sokuthola ukuthi yini osebenza kahle kuyo - futhi awekho kahle kangako.
6. Qala Okuthile
Ungaqala izinto ezimbalwa, okuhlanganisa ibhizinisi, inhlangano yangaphandle kwesikole, iphephandaba, umzamo wokusiza umphakathi noma umkhankaso, uchungechunge lwamafilimu, nanoma yini enye ongayicabanga. Ukuqala ibhizinisi, ukulenza liphile, futhi ukuligcina kuzokufundisa ngokungafani nanoma yiliphi elinye. Iphinde ikulungiselele imisebenzi yesikhathi esizayo, kungakhathaliseki ukuthi iluhlobo luni. Uma ungena ezweni langempela lebhizinisi, uzoqaphela ukuthi ukwenza iphrojekthi yikho konke okwenzayo, futhi kunzima. Kuhle ukuba nalokho okuhlangenwe nakho ngenkathi usesikoleni.
Abafundi basenyuvesi banomkhawulo obalulekile lapha, okufana nokuthumela i-imeyili okubandayo. Uma umemezela ukuthi ungumfundi osebenza kuphrojekthi yasenyuvesi kunokuba nje omunye osanda kuthola iziqu, abaxhasi bezinkampani bazimisele kakhulu ukukusiza.
Futhi, kukhona osolwazi, odeshi, kanye nabasebenzi ekhempasini abangakusiza, imiqhudelwano kanye nezifundo zokufunda ukukusiza ukuthi uqalise, ontanga abafuna ukubambisana, namathiyetha, amahhovisi, amagumbi enkomfa, nezinye izinsiza ongazisebenzisa. Ngenkathi usenethuba, sebenzisa zonke lezi zinsiza.
7. Singcono Isimo Sakho Sezezimali
Abafundi abaningi baseNyuvesi balwa nemali yomuntu siqu ngoba kuyaqala ngqa ukukhokha izindleko nokuthatha imali ebolekiwe. Sebenzisa ngokugcwele iminyaka yakho yokugcina yesikole ukuthuthukisa imikhuba yakho yezezimali. Cabanga ukuqala imikhuba emihle kusenesikhathi, njenge:
- Ilondoloza okwengeziwe
- Ukusebenzisa imali encane
- Ukukhokha izikweletu zakho ngesikhathi ukuze kukusize wakhe isikweletu
Ungakwazi futhi ukudala isabelomali sanyanga zonke futhi unciphise isikweletu sekhadi lesikweletu ukuze ungabi nazo izibopho zezimali ngemva kokuphothula.
8. Bheka uProfessor
Wonke umuntu unoprofesa ohlukile. Indlela yokuthola eyodwa:
- Yibo abayala isifundo esithungela imicabango yakho (ngendlela enhle)
- Iqhuba isifundo emkhakheni onentshisekelo enkulu kuwo
- Ungasho ukuthi ungafunda kubo ngoba babona umhlaba ngendlela eyingqayizivele
Uma usekolishi, kulula kakhulu ukuthola uprofesa wakho. Ngemva kwalokho, kuba nzima kakhulu. Kwenze kube yinto ehamba phambili uma ungenaye “usolwazi wakho” okwazi kahle ngokwanele ukuthi angabhala incwadi encomekayo yokuncoma enezibonelo ezithile zokuthi ungubani njengomuntu.
9. Thola ezinhlanu zakho
Ayikho into efana nokuba sekhempasini yasekolishi lapho izinkulungwane zabantu abahlakaniphile nabathakazelayo zikuhaqa emagumbini akho okufundela, amaqembu, ngisho nakulo lonke ihholo! Sebenzisa lesi simo esingajwayelekile ukuxhumana nabantu abahlanu (abangekho eqenjini lakho labangane abajwayelekile) ozwa sengathi bazoshintsha umhlaba.
Ngenkathi usenyuvesi, gxila ekuthuthukiseni lokhu kuxhumana. Ezweni elisebenzayo, ukuhlala uxhumene futhi ubone abangani bakho kunzima kakhulu. Uzoba nenethiwekhi eqinile yabasekeli lapho uthweswa iziqu uma wenza lobu bungane ngenkathi usenyuvesi.
Abantu abaningi bazokutshela ukuthi ngabe abekho lapho bekhona namuhla ukube bekungengenxa yabangane ababathole enyuvesi ngezindlela ezingajwayelekile. Abeluleki kanye nezibonelo kungaba abantu abalingana nawe, ngakho-ke bafune ngenkathi usenethuba ekolishi.
Isiphetho
Ngethemba, wonke umuntu osezophothula angasisebenzisa ngokugcwele isikhathi asishiye ekolishi futhi ajabulele izigigaba abazoba nazo njengomfundi. Jabulela wonke umzuzu ngoba uzodlula ngaphambi kokuthi uqaphele.
