Uma Umgwaqo Ushintsha, Indawo Oya Kuyo Isabalulekile
Abantu abaningi bacabanga ukuthi ukuguquguquka kusho ukuzimisela ukushintsha noma yini. Shintsha uhlelo, shintsha umgomo, shintsha indinganiso, shintsha isithembiso, shintsha ubuwena. Kodwa lolo hlobo lokuguquguquka lungaba yinkinga yalo. Uma konke kulungiseka, akukho lutho oluthembekile.
Ukuguquguquka kwangempela kusebenza kangcono uma kunephuzu eliqondile. Amanani akho yilelo phuzu eliqondile. Yizona izizathu zokuthi uqhubeke uhamba lapho umgwaqo ungcolile. Isu lakho liyimoto oyisebenzisayo njengamanje. Uma imoto iphuka, akudingeki ubuze yonke indawo oya kuyo. Ungase udinge nje indlela ehlukile yokufika lapho.
Lokhu kubalulekile empilweni yansuku zonke, ikakhulukazi ngesikhathi sokucindezeleka. Umuntu oqaphela ukuzinza kwezezimali angaqala ngohlelo olulodwa, bese eqaphela ukuthi uhlelo alusahambisani neqiniso abhekene nalo. Ngaleso sikhathi, ukuhlola izinketho ezifana nokukhululwa ezikweletini kungaba ukulungiswa kwamasu, hhayi ukwehluleka kwezindinganiso.
Izindinganiso ZiyiNkanyezi YaseNyakatho
Izindinganiso azihloselwe ukuxazulula yonke inkinga ngokushesha. Zenzelwe ukukuqondisa. Zikukhumbuza ukuthi uzama ukuba ngumuntu onjani, umndeni, ithimba, noma inhlangano.
Uma ukwethembeka kuyinani, kufanele kuhlale kuzinzile ngisho noma ingxoxo ingakhululekile. Uma umthwalo wemfanelo uyinani, kufanele kusabalulekile lapho izinombolo zicindezela. Uma umndeni uyinani, kufanele uqondise izinqumo ngisho nalapho umsebenzi udingeka kakhulu. Uma ukukhula kuyinani, kufanele kusabalulekile lapho impendulo ibuhlungu.
Isu lingashintsha kulezo zindinganiso. Ungase ukhulume ngendlela ehlukile. Ungase ubeke isabelomali esisha. Ungase uhlele kabusha isimiso sakho. Ungase ucele usizo. Kodwa ukuzibophezela okujulile kusalokhu.
I-MindTools ichaza ukuthi ukuqonda izindinganiso zakho kungakusiza wenze izinqumo ezihambisana nezinto eziza kuqala kuwe, ikakhulukazi lapho izinqumo zinzima. Yilokho okubalulekile. Izindinganiso azizona izihlobiso. Zingamathuluzi okwenza izinqumo.
Isu Liyindlela Yamanje
Isu alingcwele. Liyithuluzi. Likususa lapho ukhona liye lapho izindinganiso zakho zikhomba khona.
Yilapho abantu abaningi bexakeka khona. Bathembeka emotweni esikhundleni sendawo abaya kuyo. Baqhubeka nokusebenzisa uhlelo olufanayo ngoba lwalusebenza, yize izimo sezishintshile. Bahlala nenqubo efanayo, isabelomali, indlela yomsebenzi, isitayela sokuxhumana, noma imodeli yebhizinisi ngoba ukuyishintsha kuzwakala njengokuvuma ukwehlulwa.
Kodwa isu kufanele lihlolwe uma kuqhathaniswa neqiniso. Uma indlela endala ivinjiwe, ihlanziwe, noma ingaphephile, ukuhlala lapho nokulinda akusho ukuzibophezela. Kufakazela ukunamathela endleleni eyodwa kuphela.
Usomaqhinga oguquguqukayo uyabuza, “Yini esisazama ukuyihlonipha, futhi yini okudingeka ishintshe ukuze sikwazi ukuqhubeka siyihlonipha?”
Usongo Lungenza Abantu Baqine
Lapho ingcindezi ikhuphuka, abantu abaningi abasakwazi ukudala izinto ezintsha. Banciphisa ukucabanga kwabo. Banamathela kakhulu emikhubeni ejwayelekile. Baphinda isinyathelo esifanayo ngamandla amakhulu, benethemba lokuthi umzamo uzovala isikhala sokukhubazeka.
Lokhu kuyaqondakala. Ukucindezeleka kungenza ukuqiniseka kuzizwe kuphephile kunokuzama. Uma wesaba, isu elijwayelekile lingazizwa liduduza ngisho noma lingasasizi.
Kodwa ukuqina lapho usongelwa kungashintsha isimo esinzima sibe yisimo esibambekile. Umuntu angase aqhubeke nokugwema inkinga yezezimali ngoba ukugwema sekuyindlela ezenzakalelayo. Ithimba lingase liqhubeke nokubamba imihlangano emide ngoba alazi ukuthi lingaxazulula kanjani ukudideka. Umholi angase aqhubeke nokulawula yonke imininingwane ngoba ukwethembana kuzwakala kuyingozi.
Indlela yokuphuma iwukungalahli izindinganiso zakho. Indlela yokuphuma iwukukhulula amandla akho endleleni yamanje.
Ukuzivumelanisa Nezimo Kudinga Imingcele
Ukuguquguquka okungenamingcele kuba ukuzulazula. Yingakho izindinganiso zibaluleke kakhulu. Zivimbela isu ukuthi liphenduke ukunyakaza okungahleliwe.
Isibonelo, cabanga ngomuntu obheka impilo njengebalulekile. Isu eliqinile lithi, “Kumelwe ngizivocavoce ngo-6 ekuseni njalo phakathi nesonto, kungakhathaliseki ukuthi kwenzekani.” Uma isimiso sabo somsebenzi sishintsha noma isidingo somndeni sibonakala, bangase bayeke ngokuphelele ngoba inqubo efanayo ayisasebenzi.
Isu eliqondiswa yizindinganiso lithi, “Impilo isabalulekile, ngakho-ke yiluphi uhlobo olufanele lesi sikhathi?” Mhlawumbe impendulo ukuhamba ngesikhathi sasemini, ukujima okufushane kwamandla, ukulungiselela ukudla kwangempelasonto, noma isimiso esingenamsebenzi izinyanga ezimbalwa. Inani lihlala liqinile. Indlela iyavumelana nezimo.
Umqondo ofanayo usebenza emalini, ebudlelwaneni, emisebenzini, kanye nabaholi. Ukuzivumelanisa nezimo kunamandla kakhulu uma yazi ukuthi yini enqaba ukukhaphela.
Abantu Abakulungele Basasebenza Kakhulu
Ukuhlela kubalulekile. Ukulungiselela kubalulekile. Kodwa ukulungiselela kahle akusho ukwenza sengathi yonke ipulani izosebenza njengoba kulindelekile. Kusho ukwakha ikhono lokuphendula lapho izimo zishintsha.
I-Ready.gov ikhuthaza abantu ukuba benze uhlelo oluphuthumayo ngaphambi kokuba kwenzeke izinhlekelele, okuhlanganisa nendlela yokuthola izexwayiso, indawo yokukhosela, ukuphuma, nokuxhumana. Isifundo esijulile sisebenza nangaphandle kwezimo eziphuthumayo. Awulungiseleli ngoba ungakwazi ukulawula yonke imicimbi, kodwa ngoba ukulungiselela kukunikeza izindlela ezengeziwe zokwenza uma imicimbi yenqaba ukubambisana.
Isu eliguquguqukayo alilona ubuvila noma ukunganaki. Ngokuvamile liyazithiba kakhulu kuneliqinile ngoba lidinga ukunakwa njalo. Kufanele uqaphele ukuthi yini eshintshile, ulinganise ukuthi yini esebenzayo, futhi ubuyekeze indlela yakho ngaphandle kokulahlekelwa yisizinda sakho.
Umbuzo Akusikho ukuthi “Ingabe Uhlelo Lusebenze?”
Umbuzo ongcono uwukuthi, “Ingabe uhlelo lufeze inzuzo?”
Ngezinye izikhathi uhlelo lusebenza ngobuchwepheshe kodwa luphula okubalulekile. Ufika ngesikhathi esibekiwe, kodwa ushise iqembu. Uyonga imali, kodwa ungayinaki impilo yakho. Unqoba impikiswano, kodwa wonakalisa ukwethembana. Ukhulisa ibhizinisi, kodwa ulahlekelwa isiko elenza lafanele ukwakhiwa.
Ngezinye izikhathi, uhlelo luyahluleka ephepheni kodwa lukufundisa ukuthi ungalisebenzisa kanjani kangcono inani ngesikhathi esizayo. Isabelomali asihlali isikhathi eside, kodwa sembula ukuvuza kwangempela kwemali esetshenzisiwe. Ingxoxo ayihambi kahle, kodwa ikhombisa lapho ukwethembana kudinga ukulungiswa khona. Iphrojekthi ayifiki lapho ihlose khona, kodwa iveza umcabango okwakudingeka uphikiswe.
Uma amanani ecacile, ukwehluleka kuba ulwazi esikhundleni sokuwa kobunikazi.
Ukuzivumelanisa Nezimo Kuyindlela Yobuqotho
Abanye abantu bacabanga ukuthi ubuqotho busho ukungashintshi. Kodwa ubuqotho abusho ukuba nenkani. Ubuqotho busho ukuhlala uphelele. Ngezinye izikhathi ukuhlala uphelele kudinga ukulungiswa.
Uma inani lakho liwukwethembeka, isu lakho lingase lishintshe kusukela ekungakhulumisani liye ekubekezeleni ngoba ukwethembeka ngaphandle kokunakekela kungaba yingozi. Uma inani lakho liwukupha, isu lakho lingase lishintshe kusukela ekushoneni kubo bonke liye ekubekeni imingcele ngoba ukuphana ngaphandle kwemingcele kungaba yinzondo. Uma inani lakho liwukwenza kahle, isu lakho lingase lishintshe kusukela ekufuneni ukuphelela liye ekhwalithini eqhubekayo ngoba ukufisa ukuphelela kungabhubhisa buthule umsebenzi othi uyawuvikela.
Ukuzivumelanisa nezimo kungaba yindlela eqotho kakhulu yokusabela eqinisweni. Kuthi, “Ngisakhathalela into efanayo, futhi ngenxa yokuthi ngiyakhathalela, ngizimisele ukuthola indlela engcono.”
Indlela Elula Yokuhlukanisa Amanani Kusu
Uma uzizwa ubambekile, khipha iphepha bese ulihlukanisa libe izinhlu ezimbili. Ngakolunye uhlangothi, bhala ukuthi “Yini okumele ihlale iyiqiniso?” Ngakolunye uhlangothi, bhala ukuthi “Yini engashintsha?”
Ikholomu yokuqala imayelana nezindinganiso. Mhlawumbe ukwethembana kumele kuhlale kuyiqiniso. Mhlawumbe impilo kumele ihlale iyiqiniso. Mhlawumbe umthwalo wemfanelo wezezimali, ubuciko, ukuba khona komndeni, noma ukuzibophezela ngokomoya kumele kuhlale kuyiqiniso.
Ikholomu yesibili ingeyesu. Umugqa wesikhathi ungashintsha. Ithuluzi lingashintsha. Uhlelo lungashintsha. Isitayela sengxoxo singashintsha. Isigaba sesabelomali singashintsha. Indima, inqubo, noma umzila kungashintsha.
Lokhu kuhlukana okulula kungathulisa ingqondo ngoba kukhombisa ukuthi akuzona zonke izinto ezitholakalayo. Awuzilahli. Ubuyekeza imoto.
Ukunganyakaziswa Akusho Ukungashukumi
Abantu abanamandla kakhulu akubona labo abenqaba ukuthutha. Yibo abaziyo ukuthi yini okungafanele ihambe ngaphakathi kwabo ngenkathi konke okunye kucatshangelwa kabusha.
Ukuthola ukuguquguquka kwesu, hhayi ezindinganisweni, kukunika lolo hlobo lwamandla. Uyeka ukuphatha yonke imigwaqo evinjiwe njengesinqumo sokugcina. Uyeka ukudideka indlela ephukile nomsebenzi ophukile. Uyeka ukunamathela ezinhlelweni ezingasasizi impilo ozama ukuyakha.
Izindinganiso zakho zigcina indawo oya kuyo isobala. Isu lakho likugcina usondela kuyo. Uma lezo zindima ezimbili zicacile, ubunzima bungakubambezela, bukuphonsele inselelo, futhi bukuphoqe ukuthi ucabange kabusha ngendlela. Kodwa akunqumi ukuthi ungubani noma ukuthi uyaphi.
