Wake wakuzwa kushiwo phambilini. Mhlawumbe kusuka kumphathi noma osebenza naye. Mhlawumbe ngesikhathi senhlolokhono ukuzama ukuxhuma noma ukuxoxa. Mhlawumbe ngesikhathi se-crunch njengesipho esingalungile sosizo. Mhlawumbe kusuka kothile oshaye idolo lakhe wakunikeza uqhubu oluncane ngendololwana sengathi bangumuntu wokuqala owake wacabanga futhi wakusho.
NGIYAZI UKUTHI UNGABA YINGOZI KWENELE.
Mhlawumbe uvele wahleka kancane ngenhlonipho ... “Ehh-he-he-BLEEEEEH. ” Futhi mhlawumbe lokho kwaba ukuphela kwakho.
“Ngiyamazi eno ..” Ungasho. Ungaze Uyicabange.
Manje yini inkinga enkulu, Dan? Awuthandi amahlaya? Noma ingabe uyivikela kakhulu i-turf yakho kangangokuthi lapho othile ekhombisa intshisekelo noma ezama ukululeka isandla uphonsa ukuqina?
Okokuqala, ngithanda amahlaya, nakuba leli livele likhathele futhi alihlekisi. Ngiyawabekezelela ngisho amahlaya amabi, ngiphuma ohlwini olude futhi oluziqhenyayo lwamahlaya amabi. Uma ufuna ukuzwa ihlaya elihle langempela, iya kumaphrofayili omphakathi kaFern Brady noma Derek Lipp.
Okwesibili, ngiqinisekile ukuthi ngiyayithanda idizayini yokwakha, ungifikise lapho. Kepha ngijabule ngokufanayo ngokwabelana ngalo nabanye njengoba ngizitshala kulokho. Ngizozama ukudonsela noma ngubani esibayeni ekhombisa inhlansi yesithakazelo sangempela sokufuna ukufunda nokunikela. Ngizama ukubuyisa ngokuphelele lonke usizo olukhulu engibe nalo futhi ngikholelwa ngobugovu ukuthi igagasi elikhuphukayo likhulisa zonke izikebhe. Sonke siqala njengama-newbies amasha angenaphutha, futhi kuthatha ukubekezela nokuphana kwabadala bethu ukusikhombisa indlela nokuqinisekisa ukuthi sigcina izinombolo zethu. Ngenkathi ngiqala ukufunda ukusebenzisa i-lathe, mhlawumbe ngangazi ngokwanele ukuba yingozi… Gah!
Noma kunjalo, ngifuna ukuhlukanisa phakathi kwalabo abasaqala nalabo abazama ukubukeka behlakaniphile.
Ingozi Yangempela: Ukuthinta Impumelelo Yephrojekthi
Esingakudingi ama-dilettantes. Ama-dilettantes angena esithombeni bese azungeze kuphela uma nje intshisekelo yawo ibambekile. Ngemuva kwalokho bayaqhubeka, bajahe enye into ecwebezelayo, bashiye inqwaba yolwazi olungelona iqiniso nebhizinisi elingaqediwe ukuze abanye bahlanze. Imininingwane engeyona idala okulindelwe okungamanga mayelana namaqiniso esikhathi nezidingo zezinsizakusebenza. Akukona nje ukuthi abahlinzeki ngosizo; bangakwazi ukujova ushevu. Kwanele ngalokhu, (futhi akuthathi okuningi) kungashintsha indlela ebucayi yephrojekthi ukusuka empumelelweni kuye ekuhlulekeni.
Ngenkathi ukugcizelela kwalaba bashayeli bangeSonto kungavamile ukuba “yingozi” ekulimaleni kwangempela komzimba, kungabeka engcupheni impumelelo yephrojekthi. Futhi imiphumela emibi ivame ukwehlisa isithunzi, inciphisa izikweletu, iyadabukisa futhi iyalimaza ngokuphelele.
Kwanele ukuba… Ungathembeki?
Inkulumo ethi “Ngiyazi ngokwanele ukuba yingozi” icupha ifulegi lomqondo, insimbi ye-alamu mayelana nenhloso yomuntu, ukuthi kungani, nokuthi ekugcineni ukuthembeka kwakhe. Kungani bakhethe ukuphuma endaweni yabo yekhono eliyinhloko? Kungani bakhethe ukuthi bangahlali kulayini wabo? Ngabe bathuthela kulayini ohamba kancane ukuze abanye badlule noma benze okungama-20 ngaphansi komkhawulo wejubane kulayini osheshayo? Ngabe bagwema imfucumfucu emgwaqweni ongaphambili? Noma bamane nje bahlehla futhi bayashintshashintsha ngezikhathi ezithile njengomuntu okhathele futhi ogcwele umgwaqo ogcwele ulaka uzama ukudla ilayisi elithosiwe ngenkathi eshintsha isiteshi somsakazo?
Ingozi Yezimila
Ngokuhlangenwe nakho kweminyaka engama-20 ngizungezwe onjiniyela abangochwepheshe (futhi ukuba munye), ngikwazi ukukhuluma nomqondo ofanayo nezici zobuntu eziyinhloko. Abaqambi izingqondo zezinhlelo ezinesidingo sokuqonda umhlaba wezobuchwepheshe osizungezile. Leli lukulu kungenzeka liyimpahla yethu enkulu futhi lisishukumisela ukuba sijule ekuqondeni kwethu, kude kakhulu nencwadi yokufunda noma imisebenzi esiyinikiwe.
Amandla okuqonda nokulawula ubuchwepheshe angenza abanye bazizwe bephakeme kuneqophelo lokuzikhukhumeza, ikakhulukazi uma kuqhathaniswa neningi elijwayelekile elilawulwa ubuchwepheshe. Amasistimu e-Caste angakhula phakathi konjiniyela ngokuya ngokuvela okuhlobene noma ubunzima obubonakalayo nokubaluleka kwesizinda sabo sobuchwepheshe.
Abanye bakhohliswa ngumqondo wokulawula futhi bakhathazeka ngokweqile ngokwanda kwendawo yabo. Kancane kancane, bafuna ukunweba isizinda sabo ngokumunca amaphrojekthi angomakhelwane noma angavikelwe kahle, imikhakha yobunjiniyela, ubuchwepheshe obukhethekile nezindawo zeminyango. Ekugcineni, ama-hubris abo alambele ukulawula anombono wobuqili wokuthi angabe esagxila kokungaphili nokushintsha okugxilwe ezindaweni kusuka kwabahlala kuzo, okunguwe. Ngamafuphi, kuyisidlakudla.
Thola Umthombo
Yenza ucwaningomabhuku ekungeneleleni kwezigilamkhuba okungena “emsebenzini” futhi ukuziphatha komlando ukukhomba ukuthi ikuphi i-quadrant abangena kuyo eshadini lesisusa / lesimo sengqondo.
Isincomo sami ukwenza ukuhlaziywa okufushane okususelwa ekubuyekezweni komsebenzi wezinambuzane nokuxhumana komlando bese ukhomba ukuthi ikuphi i-quadrant abangena kuyo eshadini lesimo sokuziphatha / sokuziphatha.
Ishadi Lesisimo Sengqondo / Sokuziphatha
Kuyinselele / Ukulawula
Ukwamukelwa kokuthi umsebenzi owenziwayo unzima ngokwemvelo futhi kwenziwa kungavikelwa ngokwanele. Ukubekezelela ukushayela okuncane kwesihlalo sangemuva nokushaya kancane kumane nje kuyiqiniso lesimo sesilo. Uma nivumelana ngokuthi umjaho uyimarathon hhayi i-5k, lelo qiniso lilodwa lizozivimba amandla abantu okubamba iqhaza. Kepha ngeke kukhawulele amandla abo okuthi “baqeqeshe” noma bakutshele ukuthi wenzani okungalungile.
Kuyinselele / Ukufuna ukwazi
Leli kuphela i-quadrant enhle. Kuyaziwa ukuthi ukwenza umsebenzi owenzayo kudinga amakhono akhethekile, ithalente nemfundo. Umfundi uyakwazisa okwenzayo futhi uzama ukufunda ngokwanele ukwakha ikhono lokuxoxa ukuze avale kangcono igebe. Le quadrant isuselwa ekuhloniphaneni, ukusebenzisana kanye nokuxhumana.
Okobuntwana / Ukufuna ukwazi
Lapho ukwakheka kukholwa / kuthathwa njengokulula (futhi iqiniso ukuthi okuphambene kuyiqiniso) kukhona ukuqonda okungathandeki. Izinga lokungaziphathi kahle ngaso sonke isikhathi kufanele lilindelwe kepha umehluko ungafinyelela imingcele engalungiseki futhi eyinhlekelele. Ngaphandle kweqiniso lokuthi lokhu kungadala ukungabi nenhlonipho futhi kudala ukwahlukana okulindelwe njengokuqonda okuhambelana nokulindelwe.
Okobuntwana / Ukulawula
Ubhekelwa phansi futhi wehlulwa? I-Skedaddle.
Ukungaziswa nokubuswa? Kuhwamuka.
Ngibe nezikhathi lapho ngithole khona ifa, ngezimo, anginaphutha lami, iminyaka yesikweletu sobuchwepheshe esilele emuva. Imvamisa lokhu kudalwe izingxenye ezilinganayo zolwazi lomuntu oyedwa (ezanele ukuba yingozi) nokuthi yini abangayazi (izindlela ezihamba phambili nolwazi lweminyaka). I-ego eyabavumela ukuthi bacabange ukuthi bangenza umsebenzi obucayi wobuchwepheshe ngaphandle kwesipiliyoni yi-ego efanayo ebavimbele ekuvumeni ukuthi bagajwe yisigaxa sendalo yabo. Ngakho-ke, ngaphambi kokuthi baxhaswe ngokugcwele, baletha irube bese bedonsa iswitcheroo (njengami noma wena). Kepha okungenani banenhlonipho yokukwenza ngokucwayiza nokuvuma ngekhanda.
Ukubhekana Nengozi
Lapho usebenza ezimweni "eziyingozi", umthetho wokuqala uhlala njalo Ukuphepha Okokuqala. Uma ukwazi ukwamukela, noma uchume, ngaphansi kwezimo zamanje ukuhlala phansi kungaba yindlela enhle. Uma udinga ushintsho olubucayi futhi uzama ukuludlulisa noma ukululinda, yazi ukuthi ukushintsha inkambo yempi yempi kunzima noma akunakwenzeka. Ubulukhuni bukaBrinell benkani yomphathi wezobunjiniyela budlula lokho kwe-17-4 PH futhi umphumela ongahle usebenze awusekho kumashadi. Futhi kuhle ukukhumbuza abantu uma sebethole ukushelela kolimi ukuthi munye kuphela umuntu ofanelekile ukusho, 'Ngazi ngokwanele ukuba yingozi' kunoma yisiphi isimo.
Isifiso sami sangempela akukhona ukuthi abantu bayeke ukuthi 'Ngazi ngokwanele ukuba yingozi ' kepha ukukhombisa ukuzithiba ukuze babone futhi bayeke ukusebenza okuyisisekelo kokulawulwa nokuphazanyiswa okungaphazamisi impumelelo nempilo yephrojekthi jikelele. Ngaphandle kwalokho, ngenzelwe abantu ukuthi bathi ngokuzwakalayo nangokuziqhenya! Yigqoke esigqokweni noma esikibheni. Yengeze kwisiginesha yakho ye-imeyili… Njengenkungu ebusuku engixwayisa ukuthi ngihlale kude.
