Akukho mntu uthi ukuhambahamba kumnandi.
Ibekwe kuluhlu lweziganeko ezibangela uxinzelelo ebomini, kanye apho inezinto ezinzima ngokwenene. Kwaye ifumana indawo. Ukupakisha, izinto ezifunekayo, imali, intlungu engaqhelekanga yokushiya indawo enye uye kwenye - konke kubonakala ngaxeshanye kwaye kuza kuwe kuvela macala onke.
Kodwa akufuneki ukuba ikuthobe.
Xa unentloko elungileyo nesicwangciso sokwenyani, isiphithiphithi siba yinto ehambayo. Hayi ngokugqibeleleyo. Akukho nto ifanelekileyo malunga nokuhamba. Ngokulula nje ukuba uphume kwelinye icala ungenzi nto endaweni yokuba ube yi-husk. Kwaye lonke icebo kukufumanisa apho uxinzelelo luvela khona, uze ufike phambi kwalo ngaphambi kokuba luwe phantsi luze lukungcwabe.
Uninzi loxinzelelo luvela ekulindeni ixesha elide kakhulu
Nantsi into abantu abayifundayo ngendlela enzima. Uxinzelelo lokuhamba alusoloko luyinto eyenzeka rhoqo. Yiveki yokugqibela le.
Yeka yonke into iphele kwaye yonke imisebenzi ifika ngaxeshanye. Upakisha kwaye ucoca kwaye ulungelelanisa kwaye ubiza abantu xa ungalali, kwaye kuba nzima ngendlela ebekungenakuphepheka ngayo.
Ukuqala kwangethuba yeyona nto ilungileyo onokuyenza. Kwaye simahla.
Zinike iiveki endaweni yeentsuku, kwaye yonke into iyakhululeka. Pakisha indawo enye ngexesha. Jongana namaphepha ngaphambi kokuba kube yinto ekuphazamisayo. Cinga ngezigqibo zakho endaweni yokusabela nje kwinto etshayo.
Kwangethuba kukwakuthengela indawo yokukhusela izinto ezingalindelekanga, kwaye kusoloko kukho izinto ezingalindelekanga. Ukulibaziseka. Ukungqubana kweshedyuli. Ikhabhathi ezele zizinto ozithembileyo ukuba uzilibele ukuba unazo. Ngokuhamba kwexesha, ezo zinto ziyakucaphukisa. Ngaphandle kwazo, zezona zinto zikukhubekisayo.
Nokuba icebo elinzima alinakuthelekiswa nanto. Ukwazi nje ukuba yintoni iveki nganye efunekayo kuyanciphisa ubunzima.
Isicwangciso siguqula intaba ibe luluhlu lwezinto ekufuneka zenziwe
Uninzi lwezinto ezenza ukuhamba kube nzima kukuba kufika njengesiqu esikhulu esingenasimo. Hamba. Hamba ubomi bonke. Uqala phi?
Icebo lisika iblob ibe ziingceba.
Endaweni yokuthi “hamba,” unezinyathelo zokwenyani. Bhukisha ilori. Hlela iikhabhathi. Tshintsha idilesi. Pakisha ikhitshi. Vula izixhobo zikagesi. Akukho nanye kwezo ezoyikisayo ngokwayo. Yoyikisa kuphela njengenqwaba.
Sebenza umva emva kosuku lokuhamba kwaye unike iveki nganye imisebenzi yayo. Iveki enye yokususa izinto ezingafunekiyo. Enye yeyokunceda ngezinto kunye noncedo lokubhukisha. Enye yeyokubhala amaphepha. Enye yeyokupakisha.
Ukuyihlukanisa kuya kukuthintela ukuba ungatshoni. Kwaye ukulibala izinto kwenza into ethile engqondweni yakho; yonke imisebenzi egqityiweyo ibubungqina bokuba uyaqhubeka, into oyifunayo kakhulu ngemihla oziva ngathi akukho nto iqhubekayo.
Icebo aliyi kuyenza kube lula. Nangona kunjalo, litshintsha ukudideka libe yindlela. Kwaye eyona nto iphambili kukulwa.
Izinto ezimbalwa, uxinzelelo oluncinci
Kukho inyaniso ecacileyo malunga nokufuduka kwabantu: bayalwa bade beme emanqeni bekwiibhokisi. Okukhona ungenazo izinto ezininzi, kokukhona kulula kakhulu.
Yonke into oyigcinayo kufuneka ipakishwe, ithuthwe, kwaye ikhutshwe. Ngoko ke ukurhuqa izinto ongazisebenzisiyo kukuhlawula ngokoqobo, ngemali nangomzamo, ukuhambisa izinto ezingafunekiyo ukusuka kwenye indlu ukuya kwenye.
Susa izinto ezingafunekiyo ngaphambi kokuba upakishe ibhokisi enye.
Igumbi ngegumbi, thetha inyani. Yintoni oyisebenzisayo ngokwenene? Yintoni oyithandayo? Yintoni ebisoloko ingachukunyiswa kangangeminyaka emithathu kuba nje ukuyilahla kuvakala ngathi sisigqibo? Nikela ngayo, uyithengise, uyilahle.
Oku kwenza okungaphezulu nje kokunciphisa inqwaba. Kususa intloko yakho. Ukucwangcisa izinto zakho kunyanzelisa izigqibo ezincinci ezilikhulu, kwaye yonke into oyenzayo ngoku ayiyenzi ezinzulwini zobusuku une-tape gun esandleni sakho.
Ufika kwindawo entsha ungenazo izinto ezininzi zokukhupha impahla kwaye uqalise ubomi obutsha. Oko kulula kuyafaneleka ukuze ufike apho.
Uncedo olufanelekileyo lutshintsha yonke into
Enye yezona zinto zibalulekileyo xa kusenziwa intshukumo kukwenza izinto ngokwakho xa kuthelekiswa neengcali, kwaye inika umbala kumava onke.
Ukuzisebenzela ngokwakho konga imali, kwaye ngamanye amaxesha yindlela efanelekileyo ngokwenene. Kodwa kudla ixesha namandla, kwaye xa uhamba umgama omde okanye omkhulu kunokukukhokelela ekudinweni.
Abahambi batshintsha izibalo, ingakumbi xa umgama usiya kude okanye xa ixesha lincinci. Kulapho uphando oluncinci lufumana khona imali. Ukukhangela iinkampani zokuthutha ezisebenza ngokupheleleyo kukunceda ufumane iqela elithwala izinto ezinzima, likhusele izinto zakho, kwaye likhuphe umthwalo wokwenene kuwe, uhlobo lokwenyani nohlobo lwengqondo zombini.
Xa uthelekisa, musa ukuleqa inani elincinci. Funda uphononongo. Jonga ilayisenisi kunye ne-inshurensi. Bhala phantsi kanye oko kuqukiweyo. Ixabiso eliphantsi elingekhoyo isiqingatha seenkonzo alibizi. Yimali engalindelekanga yokunxiba i-hiske.
Uncedo oluhle luyakukhulula kwiinxalenye zentshukumo ezikufuna ngokwenene, endaweni yokuzama ukubamba yonke into kunye ngezandla zakho.
Pakisha ngokungathi ikamva lakho lijonge wena
Ukupakisha kulapho inxalenye enkulu yoxinzelelo ihlala khona. Ulwakhiwo oluncinci lutshintsha yonke imvakalelo yalo.
Izinto zokwenyani kuqala. Iibhokisi eziqinileyo, iteyiphu efanelekileyo, izinto zokukhusela ezaneleyo. Ukuba ushiya izinto eziphukileyo kunye neebhokisi eziphuma ngomzuzwana ombi kakhulu, nto leyo eyincasa yayo yokubandezeleka.
Emva koko pakisha ngabom. Gcina izinto zifana. Bhala ibhokisi nganye ngegumbi kwaye ubhale kancinci ukuba yintoni engaphakathi kuyo. Ngaba iyadinisa? Ewe. Kwakhona yinto ekuhlangulayo ekukrazuleni iibhokisi ezilishumi elinambini ukhangela ipani enye.
Pakisha izinto ongazichukumisi kakhulu kuqala. Gcina izinto zemihla ngemihla ukuze uzigcinele okokugqibela. Kwaye wenze ibhokisi yezinto ezibalulekileyo eziphawulwe ngokucacileyo ngosuku lokuqala: izinto zokuhlamba, amayeza, iitshaja, impahla yokutshintsha, izinto ezisisiseko. Loo bhokisi ihamba nawe. Ayizukuba yilori.
Imikhwa emincinci, umvuzo omkhulu. Ukupakisha ngononophelo ngoku ngokuhlwanje—ukwenza iveki ezayo—uyinto eqinileyo.
Lumka iindawo ezingezizo ezothutho
Abantu bagxila kwicala lenyama baze balibele ngokupheleleyo elo leemvakalelo. Kodwa liyinyani, kwaye ukulityeshela lithetha ukuba liya kukwenza uzive ungcono kamva.
Ukushiya ikhaya, ummelwane, into eqhelekileyo, kuyavuselela izinto nokuba utshintsho luyinto obuyifuna kakhulu. Ungavuya kwaye ube lusizi ngexesha elinye. Oko akuphikisani. Loo mntu udlula kwinto ebalulekileyo.
Zivumele ukuba uzive. Yithi ndlela-ntle ngokwenene. Buyela kwiindawo ezazithetha into ethile. Thatha iifoto ezimbalwa. Bona abantu oza kubakhumbula. Amasiko amancinci akuvumela ukuba uvale isahluko endaweni yokuhamba nje kuso.
Kwaye khululeka xa uxakekile. Ukushukuma kuyadinisa. Ukuba unomsindo omfutshane okanye usasazekile okanye ulila ngendlela engaqhelekanga, oko akusikuko ukusilela. Loo mntu uthwala izinto ezininzi ngaxeshanye. Lala. Yitya into engeyo-granola bar. Phumla. Uphatha iindawo ezinzima ngcono xa ungasebenzisi umsi.
Lungiselela indawo entsha ukuze ikhululeke kuqala
Ukufika kwindlu entsha akuyonto yokugqibela. Indlela ohlala ngayo ngokweemilo zakho ivakala ngathi yonke into ivakala emva koko.
Musa ukuzama ukuyichaza yonke into ngaxeshanye. Loo nto ithetha ukuba uxinezelekile.
Qala ngezinto eziyimfuneko. Yenza iibhedi ukuze ukwazi ukulala ngokuhlwanje. Yenza igumbi lokuhlambela lisebenze. Lungisa ikhitshi ngokwaneleyo ukuze lisebenze. Nje ukuba izinto eziyimfuneko zilungiswe, yonke enye into inokwenzeka kancinci, akukho xinzelelo.
Zinike ixesha lokwenyani lokuziqhelanisa. Indawo entsha ayivakali ngathi yikhaya kwangoko, kwaye oko kuqhelekile. Ifika ingamaqhekeza. Isidlo sokuqala esiphekiweyo ekhitshini elitsha. Ukuhambahamba kokuqala okungadingi mephu. Intsasa yokuqala uvuka kwaye awudideki okwethutyana malunga nokuba ukuphi.
Intuthuzelo ngaphambi kokugqibelela. Indawo evakala imnandi ukuba kuyo iyodlula leyo ingenanto ivaliweyo ngalo lonke ixesha. Ukulungiselela kuyaphumelela ekugqibeleni.
Ukutyibilika akuthethi ukuba nesiphako
Intshukumo etyibilikayo yayingekuko ukuba yonke into ihambe kakuhle. Into ihlala ihamba ecaleni. Thembela kuyo.
Intshukumo ethambileyo yileya apho ulungele khona ukunyamezela ukubetheka nokuma.
Qala kwangethuba. Yenza isicwangciso. Yehlisa umthwalo. Fumana uncedo olufanelekileyo. Zilungiselele ngononophelo. Zikhathalele. Zikhulule ungene kwindawo entsha. Akukho nanye kwezi zinto inzima yodwa. Zidibene ndawonye, ziguqula isiganeko esixinezelekileyo sibe yinto onokuyiqhuba ngokwenene.
Ukufuduka mhlawumbi kuya kuhlala kungumbhodamo kancinci. Kodwa ngenjongo ethile, kuyayeka ukuba yingxaki kwaye kuqala ukuba yinguquko yokwenyani.
Awuthuthi nje izinto zakho kwindawo entsha. Uvula isahluko. Kwaye ukuba siphathwa kakuhle, eso sahluko singaqala ngoxolo kakhulu kunokuba ubucinga.
