Pamene Msewu Usintha, Komwe Ukupita Kumakhala Kofunikabe
Anthu ambiri amaganiza kuti kukhala wosinthasintha kumatanthauza kukhala wokonzeka kusintha chilichonse. Sinthani dongosolo, sinthani cholinga, sinthani muyezo, sinthani lonjezo, sinthani umunthu wanu. Koma kusinthasintha koteroko kungakhale vuto lake. Ngati chilichonse chingathe kusinthidwa, palibe chomwe chingadaliridwe.
Kusinthasintha kwenikweni kumagwira ntchito bwino ngati ili ndi mfundo yokhazikika. Miyezo yanu ndiyo mfundo yokhazikika. Ndi chifukwa chake mumayendabe pamene msewu wasokonekera. Njira yanu ndi galimoto yomwe mukugwiritsa ntchito pakali pano. Ngati galimoto yawonongeka, simuyenera kufunsa komwe mukupita. Mungafunike njira ina yoti mukafike kumeneko.
Izi ndizofunikira pa moyo watsiku ndi tsiku, makamaka panthawi yamavuto. Munthu amene amaona kuti kukhazikika kwachuma n’kofunika kwambiri angayambe ndi dongosolo limodzi, kenako n’kuzindikira kuti dongosololi silikugwirizana ndi zomwe akukumana nazo. Panthawi imeneyo, kufufuza njira zina monga kuchepetsa ngongole kungakhale kusintha kwa njira, osati kulephera kwa mfundo zofunika.
Makhalidwe Abwino Ndi Nyenyezi Yakumpoto
Makhalidwe abwino si cholinga chake kuthetsa vuto lililonse nthawi yomweyo. Cholinga chake ndi kukuphunzitsani momwe mungachitire zinthu. Amakukumbutsani mtundu wa munthu, banja, gulu, kapena bungwe lomwe mukufuna kukhala.
Ngati kuona mtima ndi chinthu chofunika, chiyenera kukhala chokhazikika ngakhale pamene zokambirana sizikusangalatsa. Ngati udindo ndi chinthu chofunika, chiyenera kukhala chofunika ngakhale pamene ziwerengero zikuvutitsa. Ngati banja ndi chinthu chofunika, chiyenera kutsogolera zisankho ngakhale pamene ntchito ikufunika. Ngati kukula ndi chinthu chofunika, chiyenera kukhala chofunika ngakhale pamene mayankho akupweteka.
Ndondomekoyi ingasinthe motsatira mfundo zimenezo. Mungalankhule mosiyana. Mungakhazikitse bajeti yatsopano. Mungasinthe nthawi yanu. Mungapemphe thandizo. Koma kudzipereka kwakukulu kudakalipo.
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Njira Ndi Galimoto Yamakono
Njira si yopatulika. Ndi chida. Imakuchotsani pamene muli kupita kumene makhalidwe anu akulozera.
Apa ndi pomwe anthu ambiri amasokonezeka. Amakhala okhulupirika ku galimoto m'malo mopita komwe akupita. Amapitiriza kugwiritsa ntchito dongosolo lomwelo chifukwa linkagwira ntchito kale, ngakhale kuti zinthu zasintha. Amatsatira ndondomeko yomweyo, bajeti, njira yogwirira ntchito, njira yolankhulirana, kapena njira yamalonda chifukwa kusintha kumakhala ngati kuvomereza kulephera.
Koma njira iyenera kuyesedwa motsutsana ndi zenizeni. Ngati njira yakale yatsekedwa, yasambitsidwa, kapena yotetezeka, kukhala pamenepo ndikudikira sikutanthauza kudzipereka. Zimangotsimikizira kukonda njira imodzi yokha.
Katswiri wosinthasintha akufunsa kuti, “Kodi tikuyesetsabe kulemekeza chiyani, ndipo n’chiyani chomwe chiyenera kusintha kuti tipitirize kuchilemekeza?”
Chiwopsezo Chingapangitse Anthu Kukhala Olimba Mtima
Anthu ambiri akamapanikizika, saganiza bwino. Amangotsatira zizolowezi zomwe amazolowera. Amabwerezabwereza zomwezo mwamphamvu, akuyembekeza kuti khama lawo lidzakwaniritsa zomwe sangakwanitse.
Izi n'zomveka. Kupsinjika maganizo kungapangitse kuti kutsimikiza kumveke kotetezeka kuposa kuyesa. Mukachita mantha, njira yodziwika bwino imatha kukhala yotonthoza ngakhale itakhala yosathandiza.
Koma kukhwimitsa zinthu pamene zinthu zili pangozi kungasinthe vuto kukhala vuto lovuta. Munthu angapitirize kupewa vuto la zachuma chifukwa kupewa kwakhala njira yokhazikika. Gulu likhoza kupitiriza kuchita misonkhano yayitali chifukwa silikudziwa momwe lingathetsere chisokonezo. Mtsogoleri angapitirize kulamulira chilichonse chifukwa kudalirana kumakhala koopsa.
Njira yothetsera vutoli si kusiya mfundo zanu. Njira yothetsera vutoli ndi kusiya kugwiritsa ntchito njira yomwe mukugwiritsa ntchito panopa.
Kusinthasintha Kumafuna Malire
Kusinthasintha kopanda malire kumakhala kosinthasintha. Ichi ndichifukwa chake mfundo zofunika kwambiri. Zimalepheretsa njira kusanduka kayendetsedwe ka zinthu mwachisawawa.
Mwachitsanzo, taganizirani munthu amene amaona thanzi kukhala lofunika kwambiri. Njira yokhwima imati, “Ndiyenera kuchita masewera olimbitsa thupi nthawi ya 6 koloko m’mawa tsiku lililonse la sabata, zivute zitani.” Ngati nthawi yawo yogwirira ntchito yasintha kapena ngati banja lawo likusowa thandizo, angasiye ntchito yawo yonse chifukwa chakuti nthawi zonse satha.
Njira yotsogozedwa ndi mfundo imati, “Thanzi likadali lofunika, ndiye ndi mtundu uti woyenerera nyengo ino?” Mwina yankho lake ndi kuyenda pa nkhomaliro, kuchita masewera olimbitsa thupi ochepa, kukonzekera chakudya kumapeto kwa sabata, kapena kuchita masewera olimbitsa thupi pang'ono kwa miyezi ingapo. Mtengo wake umakhala wolimba. Njirayi imasintha.
Lingaliro lomweli limagwiranso ntchito pa ndalama, maubwenzi, ntchito, ndi utsogoleri. Kusinthasintha kumakhala kwamphamvu kwambiri akadziwa zomwe akukana kupereka.
Anthu Okonzeka Akadali Ofunika Kwambiri
Kukonzekera n'kofunika. Kukonzekera n'kofunika. Koma kukonzekera bwino sikutanthauza kunamizira kuti dongosolo lililonse lidzagwira ntchito monga momwe mukuyembekezerera. Kumatanthauza kumanga luso lochitapo kanthu zinthu zikasintha.
Ready.gov imalimbikitsa anthu kupanga dongosolo ladzidzidzi masoka asanachitike, kuphatikizapo momwe angalandirire machenjezo, pogona, kuchoka, ndi kulankhulana. Phunziro lozama likugwiranso ntchito pazochitika zadzidzidzi zakunja. Mumakonzekera osati chifukwa choti mungathe kuwongolera chochitika chilichonse, koma chifukwa kukonzekera kumakupatsani njira zambiri zochitira zinthu pamene zochitika zikukana kugwirizana.
Njira yosinthasintha si yaulesi kapena yosasamala. Nthawi zambiri imakhala yodziletsa kuposa yokhwima chifukwa imafuna chisamaliro nthawi zonse. Muyenera kuzindikira zomwe zasintha, kuyeza zomwe zikugwira ntchito, ndikusintha njira yanu popanda kutaya malo anu ofunikira.
Funso Silikuti “Kodi Dongosolo Linagwira Ntchito?”
Funso labwino ndi lakuti, “Kodi dongosololi linakwaniritsa phindu lake?”
Nthawi zina dongosolo limagwira ntchito mwaukadaulo koma limaphwanya zomwe zili zofunika. Mumafika nthawi yomaliza, koma gulu limawononga. Mumasunga ndalama, koma mumanyalanyaza thanzi lanu. Mumapambana mkangano, koma mumawononga chidaliro. Mumakulitsa bizinesi, koma mumataya chikhalidwe chomwe chidapangitsa kuti ikhale yoyenera kumanga.
Nthawi zina, dongosolo limalephera papepala koma limakuphunzitsani momwe mungachitire bwino nthawi ina. Bajeti siigwira ntchito bwino, koma imavumbula kutayika kwenikweni kwa ndalama. Kukambirana sikukuyenda bwino, koma kumawonetsa komwe kukukhulupirirana kukufunika kukonzedwa. Ntchito imalephera cholinga, koma imavumbula lingaliro lomwe liyenera kutsutsidwa.
Zinthu zikamveka bwino, kulephera kumakhala chidziwitso m'malo mokhala kutayika kwa chizindikiritso.
Kusintha Ndi Mtundu wa Umphumphu
Anthu ena amaganiza kuti umphumphu umatanthauza kusasintha. Koma umphumphu si kuuma mtima. Umphumphu umatanthauza kukhala wamphumphu. Nthawi zina kukhala wamphumphu kumafuna kusintha.
Ngati phindu lanu ndi kuona mtima, njira yanu ingasinthe kuchoka pa kukhala wolankhula mosapita m'mbali kupita pa kuleza mtima chifukwa kuona mtima popanda kusamala kungawononge. Ngati phindu lanu ndi kuwolowa manja, njira yanu ingasinthe kuchoka pa kunena inde kwa aliyense kupita pa kukhazikitsa malire chifukwa kuwolowa manja popanda malire kungasinthe kukhala mkwiyo. Ngati phindu lanu ndi kuchita bwino, njira yanu ingasinthe kuchoka pa kukhala wokonda ungwiro kupita ku khalidwe lokhazikika chifukwa kukhala wokonda ungwiro kungawononge mwakachetechete ntchito yomwe imati ikuteteza.
Kusinthasintha kungakhale yankho loona mtima kwambiri ku zenizeni. Limati, "Ndimasamalabe za chinthu chomwecho, ndipo chifukwa chakuti ndimasamala, ndikufunitsitsa kupeza njira yabwino."
Njira Yosavuta Yolekanitsira Makhalidwe Abwino ndi Njira
Mukayamba kukayikira, tengani pepala ndikuligawa m'magawo awiri. Kumbali imodzi, lembani kuti “Kodi ndi chiyani chomwe chiyenera kukhala choona?” Kumbali inayo, lembani kuti “Kodi n’chiyani chingasinthe?”
Gawo loyamba ndi la makhalidwe abwino. Mwina kudalirana kuyenera kukhala koona. Mwina thanzi liyenera kukhala loona. Mwina udindo wazachuma, luso, kukhalapo kwa banja, kapena kudzipereka kwauzimu ziyenera kukhala zoona.
Gawo lachiwiri ndi la njira. Nthawi yogwirira ntchito ingasinthe. Chidacho chingasinthe. Ndondomeko ingasinthe. Kalembedwe ka zokambirana kangasinthe. Gulu la bajeti lingasinthe. Udindo, ndondomeko, kapena njira zingasinthe.
Kugawanika kumeneku kungathe kutonthoza maganizo chifukwa kumasonyeza kuti si zonse zomwe zingatheke. Simukudzitaya nokha. Mukusintha galimoto.
Kusasunthika Sikutanthauza Kusasuntha
Anthu amphamvu kwambiri si omwe amakana kusuntha. Ndi omwe amadziwa zomwe siziyenera kusuntha mkati mwawo pamene zina zonse zikuganiziridwanso.
Kupeza kusinthasintha mu njira, osati mu mfundo, kumakupatsani mphamvu yamtunduwu. Mumasiya kuona msewu uliwonse wotsekedwa ngati chigamulo chomaliza. Mumasiya kusokoneza njira yosweka ndi cholinga chosweka. Mumasiya kugwiritsitsa mapulani omwe sakutumikiranso moyo womwe mukuyesera kumanga.
Makhalidwe anu amaonetsetsa kuti komwe mukupita kukuwoneka. Njira yanu imakuthandizani kuti mupite kumeneko. Pamene maudindo awiriwa ali omveka bwino, mavuto angakuchedwetseni, kukuvutitsani, ndikukukakamizani kuganiziranso njira. Koma sizikutanthauza kuti ndinu ndani kapena kuti mukupita kuti.
