Ina Huri te Huarahi, he Mea Hiranga Tonu te Haerenga
He tokomaha te hunga e whakaaro ana ko te ngāwari he hiahia ki te whakarerekē i tetahi mea. Hurihia te mahere, whakarerekēhia te whāinga, whakarerekēhia te paerewa, whakarerekēhia te kupu whakaari, whakarerekēhia te tuakiri. Engari ko taua momo ngāwari ka noho hei raruraru anō. Ki te taea te whakarerekē i ngā mea katoa, kāore he mea e pono ana.
He pai ake te mahi a te ngāwari tūturu ina he pūwāhi pumau tōna. Ko ō uara taua pūwāhi pumau. Koinei te take e haere tonu ai koe ina pōrearea te rori. Ko tō rautaki ko te waka e whakamahia ana e koe i tēnei wā tonu. Ki te pakaru te waka, kāore koe e hiahia ki te pātai i te ūnga katoa. Me whai huarahi kē pea koe ki te tae atu ki reira.
He mea nui tēnei i roto i te oranga o ia rā, inā koa i te wā e pēhia ana. Tērā pea ka tīmata te tangata e whakanui ana i te pumau o te pūtea me tētahi mahere, kātahi ka kite kāore te mahere e ōrite ana ki te ao tūturu e pā ana ki a ia. I taua wā tonu, ko te tūhura i ngā kōwhiringa pēnei i te whakakorenga nama he whakatikatika rautaki pea, ehara i te korenga o ngā uara.
Ko ngā Uara te Whetu o te Raki
Kāore ngā uara i te hangaia hei whakaoti rapanga tonu. He mea whakarite hei ārahi i a koe. Ka whakamahara i a koe ki te momo tangata, whānau, tīma, whakahaere rānei e ngana ana koe kia noho.
Mena he uara te pono, me noho pumau tonu ahakoa te kore whakamarie o te kōrero. Mena he uara te kawenga, me whai tikanga tonu ahakoa te taumahatanga o ngā tatauranga. Mena he uara te whānau, me ārahi i ngā whakataunga ahakoa te uaua o te mahi. Mena he uara te tipu, me whai tikanga tonu ahakoa te mamae o te urupare.
Ka taea e te rautaki te huri i aua uara. Tērā pea he rerekē āu kōrero. Tērā pea ka whakatakoto koe i tētahi tahua hou. Tērā pea ka whakarite anō koe i tō kaupapa mahi. Tērā pea ka tono āwhina koe. Engari kei te mau tonu te whakapau kaha hohonu.
E whakamārama ana a MindTools mā te mārama ki ō uara ka āwhina i a koe ki te whakatau i ngā kōwhiringa e hangai ana ki ō kaupapa matua, inā koa he uaua ngā whakataunga. Koinei te kaupapa matua. Ehara ngā uara i te whakapaipai. He taputapu whakatau.
Ko te Rautaki te Waka o Nāianei
Ehara te rautaki i te mea tapu. He taputapu. Māna koe e ārahi mai i tō tūrangawaewae ki te tūrangawaewae e tohu ana ōu uara.
Koinei te wāhi e raru ai te tini o te tangata. Ka piripono rātou ki te waka, kaua ki te wāhi e haere atu ai. Ka mau tonu tā rātou whakamahi i te mahere kotahi nā te mea i pai i mua, ahakoa kua rerekē ngā āhuatanga. Ka mau tonu rātou ki te mahinga, te tahua, te ara mahi, te momo whakawhitiwhiti kōrero, te tauira pakihi rānei, nā te mea ko te whakarerekētanga he rite ki te whakaae i te hinganga.
Engari ko te rautaki me whakamātautau ki te ao tūturu. Mēnā kua āraia, kua horoia, kua kore rānei e haumaru te ara tawhito, kāore te noho noa me te tatari e tohu i te whakapau kaha. He tohu noa iho tēnei i te piripono ki tētahi tikanga.
Ka pātai tētahi kaitātari rautaki ngāwari, "He aha tā tātou e ngana tonu ana ki te whakahonore, ā, he aha hoki ngā mea me whakarerekē kia taea ai e tātou te whakahonore tonu?"
Ka taea e te riri te whakakeke i te tangata
Ina piki ake te pēhanga, he tokomaha ka ngoikore te auahatanga. Ka whakawhāitihia ō rātou whakaaro. Ka piri tonu ki ngā tikanga kua mōhiotia. Ka mahi anō rātou i taua nekehanga me te kaha ake, me te tumanako ka ea te ngoikore o te mahi.
He mea mārama tēnei. Mā te ahotea ka noho haumaru ake te mōhiotanga i te whakamātautau. Ina mataku koe, ka noho whakamarie te rautaki kua mōhiotia ahakoa kāore e whai hua ana.
Engari mā te pakari i raro i te mōrearea ka taea te huri i tētahi āhuatanga uaua hei āhuatanga mau. Tērā pea ka karo tonu te tangata i tētahi raruraru pūtea nā te mea kua noho te karo hei rautaki matua. Tērā pea ka roa ake ngā hui a te tīma nā te mea kāore rātou e mōhio me pēhea te whakaoti rapanga. Tērā pea ka whakahaere tonu te kaiārahi i ngā āhuatanga katoa nā te mea he mōrearea te whakawhirinaki.
Ko te ara ki waho, kaua e whakarērea ō uara. Ko te ara ki waho, ko te wetewete i tō pupuri i te tikanga o nāianei.
Ngā Rohe e Hiahiatia ana mō te Ngāwari
Ka huri te ngāwari me te kore rohe hei nekenekehanga. Koia te take he mea nui ngā uara. Ka ārai i te rautaki kei huri hei nekehanga matapōkere.
Hei tauira, whakaarohia tētahi tangata e whakanui ana i te hauora. E mea ana tētahi rautaki pakari, "Me whakakorikori tinana ahau i te 6 i te ata i ia rā wiki, ahakoa pēhea." Mēnā ka huri tā rātou kaupapa mahi, ka puta rānei he hiahia whānau, ka mutu pea tā rātou mahi nā te mea kāore e taea te mahi i taua kaupapa tonu.
E mea ana tētahi rautaki e ārahi ana i ngā uara, "He mea nui tonu te hauora, nō reira, ko tēhea te putanga e tika ana mō tēnei wā?" Ko te whakautu pea ko te hikoi i te tina, he whakangungu kaha poto ake, he whakarite kai mō te mutunga wiki, he mahi iti ake te kaha mō ētahi marama. Ka mau tonu te uara. Ka urutau te tikanga.
E pā ana tēnei whakaaro ki te moni, ki ngā whanaungatanga, ki ngā mahi, me te kaiārahi. Ka tino kaha te ngāwari ina mōhio ia ki ngā mea e kore e tukua kia tukua.
Kei te Hurihuri Tonu te Hunga Kua Rite
He mea nui te whakamahere. He mea nui te whakarite. Engari, ehara i te mea ko te whakarite pai te kī ka mahi tika ia mahere kia rite ki te mea e tumanakohia ana. Ko te tikanga, me whakawhanake i te kaha ki te urupare ina huri ngā āhuatanga.
E akiaki ana a Ready.gov i te iwi kia whakatakoto mahere mō ngā āhuatanga ohorere i mua i te puta mai o ngā āhuatanga kino, tae atu ki te whiwhi whakatūpato, te whakaruru, te whakawātea, me te whakawhitiwhiti kōrero. E pā ana hoki te akoranga hohonu ki waho o ngā āhuatanga ohorere. Ehara i te mea ka taea e koe te whakahaere i ngā āhuatanga katoa, engari nā te mea ka hoatu e te whakarite he huarahi maha atu hei mahi ina kore ngā āhuatanga e mahi tahi.
Ehara te rautaki ngāwari i te mangere, i te kore whakaaro rānei. He maha ngā wā he nui ake tōna whakahaere i te rautaki pūmau nā te mea me aro tonu. Me kite koe i ngā mea kua rerekē, me ine i ngā mea e whai hua ana, me whakahou i tō huarahi me te kore e ngaro tō pokapū.
Ehara te pātai i te "I angitu te mahere?"
Ko te pātai pai ake, "I whai hua te mahere?"
I ētahi wā ka whai hua te mahere i runga i te hangarau engari ka takahi i ngā mea nui. Ka tutuki i a koe te wā mutunga, engari ka pau te tīma. Ka penapena moni koe, engari ka warewarehia tō hauora. Ka toa koe i te tautohe, engari ka kino te whakawhirinaki. Ka whakatipu koe i te pakihi, engari ka ngaro te ahurea i tika ai te hanga.
I ētahi wā, ka rahua te mahere i runga i te pepa, engari ka ako koe me pēhea te whakatutuki i te uara i te wā e whai ake nei. Kāore te tahua e mau, engari ka whakakitea te turuturu moni tūturu. Ka hē te haere o te kōrero, engari ka whakaaturia te wāhi e tika ana kia whakatikahia te whakawhirinaki. Ka hē te kaupapa i te whāinga, engari ka whakakitea he whakaaro me wero.
Ina mārama ngā uara, ka huri te hinga hei mōhiohio, kaua hei hinganga tuakiri.
He momo pono te urutau
Ki tā ētahi he kore e rerekē te ngākau pono. Engari ehara te ngākau pono i te pakeke. Ko te ngākau pono he noho ora tonu. I ētahi wā me whakarerekē te noho ora tonu.
Ki te mea ko tō pono tō uara, ka neke pea tō rautaki mai i te kōrero tika ki te manawanui nā te mea ka taea e te pono me te kore āwangawanga te huri hei kino. Ki te mea ko tō atawhai tō uara, ka neke pea tō rautaki mai i te kī āe ki te katoa ki te whakatakoto rohe nā te mea ka taea e te atawhai me te kore rohe te huri hei riri. Ki te mea ko tō hiranga tō uara, ka neke pea tō rautaki mai i te hiahia kia tino tika ki te kounga pumau nā te mea ka taea e te hiahia kia tino tika te whakangaro marie i te mahi e kīia ana e ia ka tiakina.
Ko te urutau pea te urupare tino pono ki te ao tūturu. E mea ana, "Kei te aro tonu ahau ki te mea kotahi, ā, nā te mea kei te aro ahau, kei te hiahia ahau ki te kimi i tētahi ara pai ake."
He Huarahi Māmā hei Wehe i ngā Uara mai i te Rautaki
Ki te pōuri koe, tangohia he pepa ka wehea kia rua ngā pou. Ki tētahi taha, tuhia "He aha te mea me noho pono?" Ki tētahi taha, tuhia "He aha te mea ka taea te huri?"
Ko te pou tuatahi mō ngā uara. Me noho pono pea te whakawhirinaki. Me noho pono pea te hauora. Me noho pono pea te kawenga pūtea, te auahatanga, te noho whānau, te whakapau kaha wairua rānei.
Ko te pou tuarua mō te rautaki. Ka taea te huri i te rārangi wā. Ka taea te huri i te taputapu. Ka taea te huri i te kaupapa. Ka taea te huri i te momo kōrero. Ka taea te huri i te kāwai tahua. Ka taea te huri i te tūranga, te mahinga, te huarahi rānei.
Ka taea e tēnei wehewehenga ngāwari te whakamarie i te hinengaro nā te mea e whakaatu ana kāore ngā mea katoa e taea te hopu. Kāore koe e ngaro i a koe anō. Kei te whakahou koe i te waka.
Kāore te Kore e Ruia e Tika ana kia Kore e Nekeneke
Ehara i te hunga kaha rawa te hunga e kore e neke. Ko rātou te hunga e mōhio ana ki ngā mea kāore e tika kia nekehia i roto i a rātou i a rātou e whakaaroarohia ana ngā mea katoa.
Mā te kitea o te ngāwari o te rautaki, ehara i te mea ko ngā uara, ka homai he kaha ki a koe. Ka mutu te whakaaro ki ngā huarahi kua āraia katoa hei whakatau whakamutunga. Ka mutu te whakapoauau i tētahi tikanga pakaru me tētahi misioni pakaru. Ka mutu te piri ki ngā mahere kāore e whai hua ana ki te oranga e ngana ana koe ki te hanga.
Mā ō uara ka kitea tonutia te ūnga. Mā tō rautaki koe e ārahi ki reira. Ina mārama aua tūranga e rua, ka taea e te raruraru te whakaroa i a koe, te wero i a koe, me te akiaki i a koe ki te whakaaro anō i te huarahi. Engari kāore e taea e ia te whakatau ko wai koe, ko hea rānei koe e anga atu ana.
